Communicating with others is a big problem in daily life. Some people are easy to talk to oters, but some others not. When you want to talk to someone, firstly you should find some topics to talk about, but the topics should not included the privacy,such as age, marriage or wage. Secondly, pay attention to your attitude that do not make others feel uncomfortable. Comfort is the basic of communication. Thirdly, pay attention to your body language. Body language can transmit much information, such as your attitude, manners or something you do not realize. Finally, focus on your pacing. Don't talk too fast or too slow.

 

　　與人溝通是日常生活中的一個大問題。有的人容易與人交談，但是有的人則不是這樣。當你想要和別人交談的時候，首先，你應該找一些可以談論的話題，但是話題不應該包括年齡，婚姻，薪酬等隱私。其次，要注意你的態度，不要讓別人感覺不舒服。舒服是該溝通的基本要求。再次，要注意你的肢體語言。肢體語言能夠傳遞很多信息，比如你的態度，禮貌或者你沒意識到的一些東西。最后，注意你的語速。不要說得太快或者太慢。